Mind Over Matter

The Habit of Negativity

The habit of negativity cannot be ground down and stomped out.

Nor can we simply put a positive spin on our thoughts and feelings and pretend the negative does not exist in us (only in “them”).

Withdrawal, via an over-intellectualization of our negativity, leaves us in apathy, a false sense that we are above all of those messy emotions.

As emotional beings, it is vital to feel into and understand ourselves from our feeling body. This is not to moralize or change or make ourselves bad for having negativity, but to grow ourselves up by including all of the parts of ourselves. We cannot be responsible for something unless we know it exists in us.